Thanks to a multitude of romance novels, films and the internet in general, many have built up high expectations about fairy-tale proposals that tug at the heart strings. If you are considering popping the question, there’s more pressure than ever before to get it absolutely spot on. It is, after all, a momentous event that you will both look back on fondly, so brining your A-game is vital. Don’t fret, we’ve researched the most common proposal pitfalls to aid you in this journey. Avoid these and you should have your happily ever after!

Letting the cat out of the bag:

You may be eager to share your plans with everyone. Your family, your friends and maybe even your local grocer, but contain your excitement. News spreads like wildfire and you don’t want your future fiancé to hear of your plans before they have even come to fruition.

Forgetting the basics:

Love is certainly not about materialistic things, but a proposal without a ring communicates a serious lack of commitment and preparation. She may even question the authenticity of your proposal and whether you really want this. The ring is not just a fancy decoration that exemplifies your wealth – it’s a symbol of your undying love and promise to her.

Man without a plan:
Find a happy medium between spontaneity and rigid planning. Whether it’s making dinner reservations at her favourite restaurant, or hiring a flash mob –  having an eye for detail can positively aid the emotional impact of your special moment.

Think like a girl:

Does your partner love to revel in the limelight or does she shy away from the crowd? Is she a major sports fan or does she dig the theatre more? By taking your partner’s personality into account, you can find the perfect setting for your magical proposal.

Jumping the gun:
You’re head over heels in love and you’re extremely eager to seal the deal, but hold on - are you actually sure the feeling is mutual? If not, an early proposal could potentially scare your beau off for good.